Marriage Relationship Happiness CARING COUPLE-CONFLICT TECHNIQUE

'Fight' properly and actually use differences to stay close! Prevent unnecessary marriage or couple relationship breakdown, separation and divorce.

Couple differences are natural. But hurtful fighting, 'peace at any price' and 'the silent treatment' push you apart and into loneliness.

Instead, step by caring step, you:

• handle one issue at a time
• communicate calmly [Easy when you accept yourself].
• understand yourself and your partner better
• together find a solution that works for both of you

Then you will feel close and loving now and as time goes by.

This is not 'conflict resolution'. Instead, work out a solution that includes real underlying differences and satisfies both of you.

Calm confidence follows naturally from the Self Acceptance Skills.

Your children need two significant gifts for a happy life: Self Acceptance Skills give the confidence, resilience and self-identity to choose their partner well. Constructive couple arguing in front of them teaches how to do it properly.

In Happiness - It's Up To You, easy steps to self acceptance & good relationships (pages 187 to 209) by Sabine Beecher [Boolarong Press]